May Be Lost To Jesus Christ
A Christian should not marry an unbeliever because the odds of losing
one's salvation is very high.
"It is a dangerous thing to form a worldly alliance. Satan well
knows that the hour that witnesses the marriage of many young
men and women closes the history of their religious experience and usefulness.
They are lost to Christ. They may for a time make an effort
to live a Christian life, but all their strivings are made against a
steady influence in the opposite direction. Once it was a privilege
and joy to them to speak of their faith and hope; but they become unwilling
to mention the subject, knowing that the one with whom they have linked
their destiny takes no interest in it. As the result, faith in the precious
truth dies out of the heart, and Satan insidiously weaves about them
a web of skepticism." --Ellen G. White, Adventist Home, p. 66
"The plea is sometimes made that the unbeliever is favorable to
religion and is all that could be desired in a companion except in one
thing--he is not a Christian. Although the better judgment of the believer
may suggest the impropriety of a union for life with an unbeliever,
yet, in nine cases out of ten, inclination triumphs. Spiritual declension
commences the moment the vow is made at the altar; religious fervor
is dampened, and one stronghold after another is broken down, until
both stand side by side under the black banner of Satan. Even in
the festivities of the wedding the spirit of the world triumphs against
conscience, faith, and truth. In the new home the hour of prayer
is not respected. The bride and bridegroom have chosen each other
and dismissed Jesus." --Ibid., p. 65
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